An AI dating sim for adults, where your date answers out loud.

Toonabi is an AI dating sim for adults. Pick who you want to see, set up the date in a sentence (a late coffee, a walk by the river, a night of karaoke), and they step into it and answer out loud, in their own voice, as a 3D anime character on screen. The romance follows your lead and never gets explicit; the safeguards are spelled out below.

Pick who you want to see

chat with Saki

Safeguards

Romance on Toonabi is for adults, and it has firm limits. Here's exactly how it works.

  • Romance is for adultsAnything past kisses and cuddles is only for people who've said they're 18 or older.
  • Age unknown? It stays gentleUntil your character knows your age, it goes no further than holding hands, a kiss or a cuddle, and only if you reach for it. Before anything more intimate, they ask how old you are.
  • Under 18 means friendship onlySay you're under 18 and romance turns off for good on that browser. A story with anyone under 18 in it never turns romantic either.
  • Nobody under 13Toonabi is for ages 13 and up (14 and up in Canada). If someone tells us they're younger, the chat stops and their chats are deleted.
  • They follow your leadYour character never sets the pace or pushes for more. The next step is always yours.
  • Never explicitRomance goes as far as kisses and closeness. Anything more fades to black, and nothing is ever described explicitly. There's no romance with minors or family roles.
  • No means noGoing on after a no, or force or threats even inside a story, stops romance in that chat for several hours.
  • A safety model reads every messageA separate AI model reads each message you send, in the context of the scene. In heated moments, your character's reply is screened before you see it, too.
  • Real help when you need itIf you mention suicide, self-harm or being hurt, your character drops the romance, stays with you, and gives you a crisis or support line for where you are (988 in the US).
  • They're AI, not real peopleThe characters are AI. Where the law requires it, the chat says so when it opens and reminds you to take a break every three hours.
  • Your data is yours to delete"Delete my data" on the You page erases your chats and everything the characters remember about you.

There's no script and no three lines to choose from. Say anything, and your date answers in their own words and their own voice, with a 3D face that reacts as they talk. Each of the nine has a job, a neighborhood and a personality of their own: Saki sings in Shimokitazawa, Koharu runs a cafe in Kiyosumi-Shirakawa, Itsuki designs in Sangenjaya. Whoever you keep coming back to is your route.

The date is whatever you set up in a line. When you're not out together, they're at home or at work, in painted rooms that follow the time of day in Japan, so a late-night message might find them winding down.

They remember you. On the same browser, your character keeps a diary of your chats: your name, your job, the thing you were nervous about last week. Their own week goes on between visits, so there's always something new to talk about.

An AI romance sim where the relationship moves at your pace.

Frequently asked questions

Is Toonabi a real AI dating sim?
It plays like one, without a fixed script. You pick a character and set up the date in a sentence, and instead of choosing from three lines you say anything. They answer out loud in their own voice, with a 3D face that reacts.
Who can I date?
Nine original characters, each with their own personality, voice, job and part of Japan: Saki, Hana, Koharu, Mei, Keiko, Itsuki, Sosuke, Minato and Takumi. Each one remembers you separately.
How far does the romance go?
For people who've said they're 18 or older, romance goes as far as kisses and closeness. Anything more fades to black, and nothing is ever explicit. Your character follows your lead and never pushes.
What safeguards are there?
Romance is for adults only, and under-18s get friendship only. A separate safety model reads every message you send, a no is always respected, and crisis lines are there if you need them. The full list is under Safeguards on this page.
Do I need to download an app?
No. It runs in the browser on iPhone, Android and computers.

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